Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?
I think that there is this fairy tale so to speak image of kink and then the reality of kink/bdsm. When I first started this journey I was married and was allowed to explore this aspect very carefully. In my mind, I thought that if I was ever ventured into this full time I would find the one magical dom/master/ sir (or whatever random title, and I would be collared and run around naked in his house all day long I would great him at the door, collar on and fun spanky object in hand and the whole evening would be naughty fun.Now that one is my take on the fantasy aspect of kink, I know there are variations on this, but the general idea seems to be the same.
Now what reality is, I am collared, I love my daddy but he is far from my master or sir in fact I don’t think I have ever called him anything but his true name, or daddy. I work full time, I normally meet him at his office we go home together, eat dinner and then snuggle in bed, with random naughty stuff tossed in there and my lovely callers calling when I am signed in. Still I am just as in love with my life currently as I was with the fantasy idea I had built up in my head.